Be a Tonto- Get a Tonto

One of the things I love about blogging is the ability to connect with people around the country and exchange ideas about ministry. So many times in the ministry we can begin to feel that not many people understand us. Often in most churches the Pastor is a generalist who 'does it all' and the only local network available is a network of people with whom he doesn't connect. So instead of trying to bridge false relationships, the average Pastor will usually go at it alone. Big Mistake.

I want to encourage you (especially if you are in the ministry) to find good friends and talk through life with them. Talk about the pressures you face, pray for one another, talk strategy or just chill out with them. These are people who understand what you're faced with... let them be a comfort.

I've been blessed to have a great friendship with a college friend, John Smith. Although we now live 1608 miles from one another, we talk at least 5-6 times a week (sometimes multiple times throughout the day depending on what's going on). Recently we've been using MSN messenger's video conference feature to brainstorm and let our families see one another (He just had a child and I have one coming in about 2-3 weeks). This relationship is important to both of us. Our wives are good friends as well so that's a bonus. We know each other's faults and we know each other's strengths. There's no need for us to put on that 'face'. We're real with one another. We pray with one another and for one another regularly. It's a huge asset to both of us.

Through the blog world I've gained encouragement from others as well. The point is that we all need this. We weren't meant to be a Lone-Ranger (even he had Tonto). It's important that you meet people in the ministry with whom you can connect and communicate .

Recently I've talked to various Pastors via email (and most recently about 10 minutes ago on the phone). Here are some of the topics:
- Moral questions
- "How's your family, marriage, etc."-accountability
- Prayed with one another
- Advice about launching a church
- Media buying
- Membership (or not?)
- Publishing giving?
- Conflict w/in the body
- Hiring/Firing staff
- Meeting location fell through
- Signage
- Sound Equipment
- Etc.

These are relevant issues for most of us but how often do we face these things alone? Too often! So put yourself out there. Visit some blogs and get to know how people think. Encourage them and they'll encourage you. Form your own E-network so you stay connected to people who "get" you. It will make for a huge spiritual and emotional payoff as you continue in your ministry.