Relax
I'm not sure where I picked this up, (I believe I found it online) but I have this quote posted next to my desk. Thought I'd share.
"Just when I get my church all sorted out, sheep from the goats, saved from the damned, hopeless from the hopeful, somebody makes a move, gets out of focus, cuts loose and I see why Jesus never wrote systematic theology.

So you and I can give thanks that the locus of Christian thinking appears to be shifting from north America and northern Europe where people write rules and obey them, to places like Africa and Latin America where people still know how to dance."
Will Willimon, Leadership Journal, summer 1994